Apologies, Dear Ones — Living Intentionally

Apologies dear friends, acquaintances, neighbors, lost pets, vendors, insurance companies, politicians, and things that I needed to remember in 2019. I have deleted your emails.

My email inbox has for a long time been a file cabinet that never gets sorted. I hang onto letters from friends and prayer requests and photos. Those all seem worthy of saving. I have saved receipts. Possibly important.

Regrettably, I also hang onto articles I wanted to refer to someday and then forget. I hang onto blog posts that seem full of wisdom. I hang onto the community garden newsletter and the city newsletter and the Greater Niles Village newsletter. I hang onto notices of sales. Online magazines. Random emails from my neighborhood e-group about garage sales and lost pets. To be fair, much of that is stuff I just forgot to delete. I wasn’t really saving them.

Really.

I did discover an email from a friend whose contact information had been lost. So, that was a win!

As for the rest of it? It all had added up to a huge word salad that was impossible to consume. And so today, I did a wholesale dump of everything that wasn’t current.

Unread wisdom is just clutter.


One of my new goals is to be more intentional. OK, I confess. This has been a perennial goal, but now I am acting on it! And while I probably discarded wisdom and heartfelt sentiments, they wouldn’t have done me much good if I didn’t read and internalized them. Unread wisdom is just clutter.

It is the difference between owning a cookbook and eating whatever happens to be at hand. It is the difference between owning a Bible and following Jesus.

Whether I will remain intentional has yet to be determined. I am learning that being intentional takes more time. It requires living in the moment. It asks you to commit again and again. Even so, I am determined to deal with email (and other things, I hope) in the moment. No more saving for later only to be forgotten. Act on it. Delete it and move on. That’s my new mantra.

Wish me luck.


One thought on “Apologies, Dear Ones — Living Intentionally

  1. Bonnie Wilburn's avatar Bonnie Wilburn

    Phyllis, No Apology Necessary! I am taking your intentional act as permission to follow in your footsteps and turn my email dumping ground from a burden of neglect to a useful tool of opportunity. As “current threads” become “past history” and “items of interest” are untapped or become obsolete, my sporadic efforts to keep it simple lose ground.

    My thankful thought this morning? For you, and your courage and intentionality to recognize, exercise and boldly share a solution to the challenge of doing what needs to be done when it needs to be done.

    Thanks! Bonnie Wilburn ________________________________

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